After a 2 year relationship.... please help!!!?

My suggestion would be to point out to her that you've already had a lot of time a part, and if it's something she see's working in the future, perhaps it's more practical to see if she can balance friends and family and her time while being in a relationship. If you tell her that though, then I guess you better be committed to making sure you can promise to give her space she needs in a relationship, and follow through on that promise. I'm sure right now anything seems better than bot seeing her at all, so that shouldn't be too hard. If you were living together perhaps make a space for her in the house that is just for her, and never have expectations about her being home all the time. Hope this helps. Good luck.