Worried about my gay friend?

You need to sit your friend down and tell him how it is. If you just COMPLETELY stay out he'll never figure it out or until its too late. I mean don't tell him how to live his life but someone needs to help him see it. Some people when they're in the difficult situations such as your friend is are often in denial and make excuses because they don't want to face reality..please just sit your friend down and tell him how you feel and how others are seeing him. He needs you. Sorry to hear about your friends situation. Best of luck.